Diego & Bethany

are getting married · 29 April 2027 · Southdowns Manor

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Our Story

How it began

We met in our first year of university, right in the middle of Covid. Bethany offered to help Diego with some coursework, and that was that.

Years later, on our very first cruise together, sailing through Iceland and the Norwegian Fjords, Diego proposed on the 22nd of May, 2025. We said yes to forever somewhere between the glaciers and the fjords, and we can't wait to celebrate with the people who mean the most to us.

29 April 2021Met
22 May 2025Engaged
29 April 2027Married

Watercolour of Southdowns Manor and its spring gardens in full bloom.

Swansea · our starting point

Our Journey

From Wales to the fjords

Four places, one story. Scroll through the chapters and the illustrated route will travel with you.

Aerial view of Swansea Bay and the city coastline

Where it begins

Swansea

It all began in Swansea, where two university students crossed paths, and somehow everything changed. Neither of us knew it yet, but this was the start of forever.

Wales · Starting point

Southampton harbour with boats

The next chapter

Southampton

Hand in hand, we packed up our old lives and built a new one together in Southampton: our first home, our first jobs, our first taste of real life as a team.

England · Harbour · Departure

A colourful street in Reykjavik, Iceland

Across the Atlantic

Iceland

Chasing the Northern Lights and open seas, we set sail on our very first cruise together, an adventure to Iceland that reminded us just how much fun it is to explore the world side by side.

Iceland · Waterfalls · North Atlantic

Norwayfjord between steep green mountains

And finally

Norway

Beneath the towering fjords of Geiranger, surrounded by some of the most breathtaking scenery on earth, Diego got down on one knee — and Beth said yes. A moment we'll treasure forever, in a place as beautiful as our story.

Norway · Fjords · Final destination

Event Details

The Day

Here's how the day will unfold. Times are approximate for now and will be confirmed closer to the date.

This running order goes live on the day and will show you what’s happening right now.

12:00 PM

Guests Arrive

Doors open at 12:00. Please arrive by 12:40 at the latest to find your seat and settle in before the ceremony.

1:30 PM

Ceremony

We say our vows at Southdowns Manor. Please be seated a little beforehand.

2:00 PM

Drinks Reception

Celebrate with us over drinks and canapés as we begin married life.

4:00 PM

Wedding Breakfast

Join us for a relaxed meal together to mark the occasion.

6:00 PM

Speeches

Raise a glass as our loved ones share a few heartfelt words.

7:00 PM

Evening Reception

Evening guests join us as we dance and celebrate into the night.

Venue

Southdowns Manor

A countryside manor set in the Hampshire hills. You’ll find the full address, directions and parking under Travel.

One setting for the whole celebration: ceremony, wedding breakfast and evening reception.

Watercolour of Southdowns Manor and its spring gardens in bloom, the countryside house where Diego and Bethany will marry.

Dress Code

Garden Formal

The look we're hoping for on the day: relaxed, colourful, and right at home in a country garden.

Illustrated Garden Formal dress-code guide. For women: elegant florals, soft fabrics, floral prints and playful colours. For men: light suits or smart separates in soft neutrals, pastels or earthy tones. Rows of guests in garden-formal outfits framed by watercolour flowers and foliage. — A little inspiration for the day.

Kind to the lawnsThe grass can be soft underfoot, so block heels or flats will thank you later.
A layer for laterLate-April evenings turn cool once the sun drops, so bring something to wrap up in.
Keep it relaxedNo black tie needed; it's a garden celebration, so wear something you can enjoy the day in.

Travel & Stay

Getting There & Where to Stay

Southdowns Manor sits deep in the South Downs countryside, so here's everything you need to arrive relaxed and find a bed nearby, no hunting across ten browser tabs required.

Plan your journey

Tell us where you’re setting off from and we’ll work out the drive, the buffer you’ll want, and whether the train is the easier option.

UK towns and postcodes. Nothing is stored; it’s worked out in your browser.

By car

Southdowns Manor
Dumpford Lane
Petersfield

GU31 5JN

Directions in Google Maps Open in Apple Maps

Sat-navs sometimes misroute rural venues down the wrong lane. The manor lies just off the A272 between Petersfield and Midhurst, so follow the map for the final stretch.

Rural lanes at night The approach is along narrow country lanes with no streetlights and patchy phone signal. Allow extra time, drive gently, and save your route before you set off.

Parking · plenty on-site There's plenty of parking at the manor, so nobody needs to reserve a space. No location pin to hunt for either — the entrance is signposted off the lane, and the team will point you to the car park as you arrive.

Southdowns Manor · GU31 5JN © OpenStreetMap

Where to stay

A spread of places within a short drive, from country-house treats to reliable budget rooms. Drive times below are approximate from the manor.

Luxury & country-house

Park House Hotel & Spa

Bepton · 12 min

Elegant country-house hotel with a spa, pools, tennis and croquet lawns. A proper South Downs treat.

The Spread Eagle Hotel & Spa

Midhurst · 10 min

A characterful 15th-century coaching inn in the heart of Midhurst, with a spa and centuries of history.

Langrish · 15 min

A four-star country house set in 14 acres of gardens inside the South Downs National Park.

Inns & mid-range

Closest to the venue

Stedham · 4 min

A village pub-with-rooms in Stedham, the nearest place to lay your head after the party.

Rooms at The Elsted Inn

Elsted · 8 min

A charming country pub-with-rooms, closer than most Midhurst options.

Sheet · 12 min

A family-owned free house with rooms on the edge of the South Downs.

The Cricketers Inn

Steep · 15 min

A cosy country pub with rooms, a good back-up if the closer inns fill up.

B&B & character

Bridge Cottage B&B

Midhurst · 10 min

A quirky 1650s cottage B&B with exceptional reviews, lovely for couples.

Budget

Premier Inn Petersfield

Petersfield · 15 min

Reliable and good value, with free parking and right by Petersfield station.

Trains & getting home

The nearest station is Petersfield, with direct trains to and from London Waterloo (around 70 minutes) on the Portsmouth line. It's roughly a 15-minute drive or taxi from the manor.

Last trains on the night · 29 April 2027

Petersfield → London Waterloo11:09 PM

Petersfield → Southampton10:12 PM

Please double-check times nearer the day, and book your taxi back from the manor in advance. This is the one that catches people out.

Taxis home · book ahead There's no shuttle, so a pre-booked taxi is the way home — app cabs rarely pick up out here. These three know the manor and the lanes around it:

A2B Taxis PetersfieldLargest local fleet · bookings 24 hours 01730 233 299
Midhurst CarsFamily-run · covers Midhurst, South Harting and Petersfield 01730 821044
BillycarsPetersfield-based · used to rural pick-ups 01730 777555

Book the journey home when you book the one out — the last hours go first.

Good to know

Signal is patchy

Mobile coverage is thin around the manor. Screenshot your directions and booking details before you set out.

Cash for taxis

Some local firms are cash-only or card-with-notice, so it's worth carrying a little cash for the journey home.

Arrive with time

Doors open at 12:00 and the final country lanes are slow going, so please arrive by 12:40 at the latest.

Gallery

A Few Moments

Our story — Our Story

The proposal — The Proposal

Together

The fjords — Fjords

With Love

Honeymoon Fund

Your presence on the day is truly the greatest gift. But for anyone who'd like to give a little something more, we're saving up for our honeymoon, and any contribution, however small, would help make it unforgettable.

How to Contribute

Add to the Adventure

We've set up a honeymoon fund where you can contribute directly. It only takes a click.

Contribute to Our Honeymoon

Prefer to give on the day? There'll be a little postbox at the reception for cards and envelopes.

Please don't feel any obligation. Being with us on the day is truly enough. 💐

FAQ

A Few Helpful Details

A few quick answers before you RSVP. We’ll keep this updated as plans are finalised.

When should I RSVP by?

Please RSVP by 28 February 2027 so we have plenty of time to confirm final numbers.

Can I bring a plus one?

Please refer to your invitation. If your invitation includes a named guest, they will be included when you RSVP.

Are children invited?

We’ll confirm this clearly on each invitation. If you’re unsure, please get in touch with us directly.

Is there parking at the venue?

Yes — there's plenty of parking at the manor and you don't need to reserve a space. There's no location pin to find either: the entrance is signposted off the lane, and the team will point you to the car park when you arrive.

Do I need to book a taxi in advance?

Yes. The manor sits in a rural spot where app-based cabs rarely pick up, so pre-book a local firm. There are three we trust with their numbers listed under Taxis home.

What should I wear?

The dress code is Garden Formal. Think relaxed, colourful, and suitable for a countryside celebration.

RSVP

Let Us Know You're Coming

Kindly reply by 28 February 2027. We can't wait to celebrate the day with you.

Find your name

Type at least 3 letters of your name and we'll do the rest.

Email

So we can confirm we've received your reply.

Will you be joining us?

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Main course

Your choice goes straight to the kitchen. The vegetable Wellington is vegetarian — anything else you can't eat, note it under dietary requirements.

Dietary requirements

Song request

A message for the couple (optional)